In no particular order, here’s a common topic military couples may fight about. Division of Labor My husband and I both work. Before we even got married, I told him, that notwithstanding the job market or any other extreme circumstances, I was going to have a career even after kids. He agreed and supported. So […] Read more…

In no particular order, here’s a common topic military couples may fight about. Kids To have kids or to not have kids? When do we have kids? How many kids? How far apart do we space them? Most couples will talk about these subjects long before marriage. For military couples, it can be another exhausting […] Read more…

In no particular order, here’s a common topic military couples may fight about. The Military The military is one helluva of a homewrecker. Since this is a heterosexual military spouse blog, I’m going to refer to the military as a “She”. She gets to decide where my family is. She gets to keep my husband […] Read more…

It was 6pm on a Friday night, I had been waiting for my husband to come home for at least two hours. Earlier in the day, he said he would be be off at 4pm. I decided to keep my patience and wait and wait and wait… Meanwhile, I had just fought traffic to get […] Read more…

In no particular order, here’s a common topic military couples may fight about. Money For enlisted and junior officers, money can be an issue. Or should I say, “lack of money” can be an issue. 1) Let’s face it, it’s not like the service member is getting overtime for the work you put in. Not […] Read more…